Steve Harvey’s book has become a “bible” for some women! It’s ridiculous. Just think like you’ve got some damn common sense!
Stop playing games and trying to figure out the male psyche. Once you know who you are and what you will or will not tolerate, then you can have a healthy relationship. Men and women are different for a reason.
If you’re playing games to try to be what you THINK the other person wants, then you will end up unhappy because one can only “act” for so long until their true selves come out.
I love being a woman and most of all I love being ME. I’m going to think and act in the manner that makes the most sense to me. Whoever likes it great and whoever doesn’t that’s fine as well. Life will still go on.
Tricks are for kids and I am grown!
Sooo I have a “friend” (we’ll call her Diamond) who always talks about her “man problems,” but the problem is…. HE IS NOT HER MAN! I have never seen a man make it so clear that they are NOT in a relationship! I mean, when you KNOW about his relationship with another woman, there’s no question!
But, according to Diamond, he says all the things she needs to hear, so IT’s OK! -__-
Talk is cheap and it means absolutely nothing unless his actions are in sync. He is SAYING one thing, but his behavior is saying something completely different. The reality is that you are single and available to go out with other people… I mean, why not? HE’S DOING IT!
Women need to be clear on what being in a relationship means to them. SOME women really do think that because they’ve spent a couple nights with this person that they’re in a relationship. Women are very emotional and if we put time into a person, that means a lot to us. Men….. aren’t really the same. For most, it is what it is with them and that’s it. Nothing less, nothing more.
Just don’t go getting your feelings hurt because your man “cheated” on you, especially if you are one of the girls he’s cheating with.
It’s WHAT you know and WHO you know that gets you places. If you know everything, but you don’t know a damn soul, how are you going to network? Now if you know every-damn-body, but you know nothing…. No one is going to want to work with you fool. You got to do your research and network with some people. You never know who people know.